
By Devi Chandra Menon
Living the Dream—Or So I Thought
By all accounts, I had made it. A high-profile title at a prestigious foreign bank, a luxurious office with a view, an impressive salary, and a dedicated team that felt like family. My life was a checklist of accomplishments—envied by many, and admired by all. But beneath the polished surface, something was wrong. The success I had worked so hard to achieve had become a gilded cage. Despite the outward trappings of achievement, I felt a growing restlessness, a suffocating discontent that no promotion or paycheck could silence.
So, I did what I knew best—I worked harder. I took on more, and traveled further, trying to drown out the gnawing questions. But no matter how fast I moved, they only grew louder. Until one day, I stopped running. Exhausted and unwilling to ignore the truth any longer, I paused. I took a deep breath, and I asked myself: What do I want?
Stepping Off the Corporate Treadmill
The answer was unexpected. I realized that money, while important, no longer held the same power over me. I had reached a point where my financial security was no longer tethered to a job. But the question that haunted me was this: Could I walk away from the life I had built, from the identity I had cultivated over 23 years? Could I let go of the routine, the status, the certainty?
As my final day at work approached, I was filled with excitement and dread. The farewell parties were bittersweet, but when the moment came, I walked out with tears and a weight lifted from my shoulders. I wasn’t sure what lay ahead, but I knew it was time to find out.
The Road to Rediscovery
I didn’t dive into another job. Instead, I embraced a long-held dream. I bought a vibrant yellow Royal Enfield and hit the open road. I rode to places that stirred my soul, places that made me feel alive in a way the corporate world never had. Getting onto my ‘manjakilli’ was like a dream re-lived. Not feeling upbeat, go for a ride. Feeling upbeat, go for a ride. My maiden solo ride is an unforgettable experience I will hold close to my heart. When the breeze hit my face I felt energized and a feeling of calm set in. Stopping by at ‘tattukadas’ on highways to satiate my food-hungry soul was an experience in itself. As I rode by the coastal line am blessed to have near me, I have time and again witnessed young lovers holding hands and enjoying the sunrises and sunsets, migratory birds on the backwaters, queues in front of the elaneerwala’s undhuwandi, children playing on d beaches, fishermen with their nets and early morning catch and many many more. Most importantly, I saw the daily mundane life through a new pair of lenses that kept reminding me that life indeed is beautiful. I have also spent time tending to my little balcony garden, my little green space nurturing life in a way that nurtured me in return. For the first time in decades, I allowed myself to simply be—without a title, without a schedule, without a plan.
And you know what? The world didn’t end. I didn’t spiral into an identity crisis, as I had feared. Instead, I found clarity. I discovered that the person I was outside the office was someone I actually liked—a person who could find joy in simplicity, peace in stillness, and fulfillment in the pursuit of a life that felt genuinely mine.
Choosing a New Path
Leaving the corporate world wasn’t the end of my story; it was the beginning of a new chapter. I didn’t jump at the next lucrative offer that came my way. Instead, I chose to chart my own course as an entrepreneur. Life still has its challenges, but now they’re challenges I embrace on my own terms.
What made my journey a meaningful one was the support I found in my family and a handful of friends. They were the true wind beneath my wings.
Looking back, taking that leap was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I’ve traded the comfort of a corner office for the freedom of the open road, and I’ve never felt more alive. For the first time, I’m not just living—I’m truly living my dream.
Simply amazing. Well done Devi. Keep going. I can relate to it.
Well written Devi!! You’ve always been a courageous and self-willed person. So proud of you for following your heart!❤️
Very well written Devi, and keep on doing what you desire and best wishes to achieve it to its fullest
യാത്രകളെ അളക്കേണ്ടത് ദൂരമോ സമയദൈര്ഘ്യമോ കൊണ്ടല്ല. അനുഭവങ്ങളിലൂടെ ഉള്ള യാത്ര യാത്രികനെ പരിഷ്കരിക്കും. എല്ലാവര്ക്കും സാധിക്കുന്ന ഒന്നല്ലതു, ദേവിക്ക് അഭിനന്ദനങ്ങള്.
കുറച്ചുകാലം മുന്പ് ഞാനുമൊന്നു ശ്രമിച്ചിരുന്നു, പക്ഷെ തോല്വിയായിരുന്നു. ജോലിയൊക്കെ രാജിവെച്ച് ലഡാക്കിലേക്ക് സ്വന്തം കാര് ഡ്രൈവ് ചെയ്തു പോയതാണ്. ഒരു മാസത്തോളം കറങ്ങി, തിരിച്ചു വന്നു. പുറപ്പെട്ട ഞാന് തന്നെയാണ് തിരിച്ചെത്തിയതും. പാരീസിലെ ല്യൂവ്വര് മ്യൂസിയത്തിലെ സന്ദര്ശകരെ കുറിച്ച് പറയുന്നൊരു തമാശയുണ്ടു. അവിടത്തെ ഭൂരിപക്ഷം സന്ദര്ശകരും വരുന്നതു മോണാലിസ കാണാനല്ല, മോണാലിസ കണ്ടവരില് ഒരാളാവാനാണ്. നാടന് ഭാഷയില് പറഞ്ഞാല് പട്ടി ചന്തക്ക് പോയ പോലെ ഞാനും നടത്തിയിട്ടുണ്ട് യാത്രകള്. ഇതൊക്കെ കാണുമ്പോഴാണ് എന്നെയെടുത്ത് കിണറ്റിലിടാന് തോന്നുന്നതു.
Amazing Devi, continue following your heart and let the dreams be fulfilled, proud of you dear.
We’ve all daydreamed about leaving the corporate grind behind and chasing something bigger and simple. Glad you leaped- taking some tips from your journey! You go, girl !!
Well written Devi.Congratulatons on following your passion!!
Congratulations on your great accomplishments!!!
From envious less fortunate 😊😂
Wow….nice….didn’t know this when we met up. Keep going….
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Very well written, Devs! And I am not surprised at what you have accomplished! You have always had that urge to do more, full of courage and enthusiasm! Super proud of you! Keep going!